It’s different when you know you belong.
You know what to do, who to talk to and what is “the norm”.
“Now those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also behave in accordance with the Spirit.” (Galatians 5:24-25 NET)
Don’t let the enemy deceive you into believing are still a slave to your flesh and subject to it’s every whim.
You are not a slave to your flesh, you are child of God.
Loved, provided for and empowered to live your life in and by the power of the Holy Spirit.
You belong to Christ- start behaving like it.